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'Tis
a Gift to be Simple
Karen Johnson Zurheide
"Help! I'm drowning! I'll never make it!" I was adrift in a
vast ocean of yet-to-be-unpacked moving boxes. With husband and children
off to their new assignments, it was up to me to make order out of chaos
in our new home.
The discouraging part was that I really thought we had pared down our
possessions. After ten years in one place, we had accumulated a lot of
stuff. And even though we had ruthlessly culled extraneous belongings
selling, giving away and throwing out we still had so much!
(Probably less stuff than many families, but certainly more than four
people needed.)
Princeton social scientist Robert Wuthnow found that about 84 percent
of Americans see materialism as a "serious social problem"
and not just because of the challenges inherent in finding places to store
all of their stuff! Racing after possessions leads to complicated and
discontented lives. If we expect things to make us happy, then we'll tend
to select jobs based mainly on pay, choose to work longer hours, and often
trade precious time that could go into relationships and rejuvenation
for money to buy more things. If things are what makes us happy,
then we'll never be confident of our worth for someone else will
always have more. We'll be perpetually dissatisfied and then pass that
spiritual emptiness on to our children. As the Bible says, "Those
who trust in their riches will wither" (Proverbs 11:28a).
By contrast, the song "Simple Gifts," describes a satisfaction
that materialism can never bring:
"'Tis a gift to be simple,
'Tis a gift to be free;
'Tis a gift to come down
Where we ought to be."
If we are free in Christ, we can live simply not enslaved to culture,
things, success. If we live simply, we can be free free of peer pressure,
the stress of living beyond our means, the compulsion to earn all we can.
Simplicity and freedom go together.
Practically, in our materialistic culture how can we move in the direction
of simplicity?
- Step
Back from the Culture based on biblical principles,
develop personal and family guidelines for spending money and time
- Choose
Carefully learn to say no, even to good things
and activities
- Purchase
Wisely seek quality; know when to spend less
than you can afford
- Stay
Lean buy less, and unload what you do not use
- Be
Generous give away money and time
- Teach
and Learn from Children remember that time
spent together is more important than things.
In the parable of the rich fool, Jesus stated that "Life does not
consist in the abundance of possessions" (Luke 12:15). Concluding
the parable, He instructed His disciples:
"Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you
will eat or about your body, what you will wear. For life is more than
food, and the body more than clothing" (Luke 12:22-23).
Pray that you would clearly see what is important in your life and that
God would give you the grace to simplify your life by letting go emotionally,
and perhaps physically of what does not matter.
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