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A Cause
for Contentment
by Scott
Lake

"I'm sorry, we must turn down your request for a mortgage."
"I think it would be best if we stopped seeing each other. Let's
just be friends."
"It sure would be nice to get that promotion, our furniture is getting
so dingy."
What is it in your life that seems just a little out of reach? A new home?
A lasting dating relationship? The ultimate job?
These just-out-of-reach things are often the factors that drive our current
American society. Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. But what
really constitutes happiness? Unfortunately, we seem to look around us
instead of inside of us for the elusive answer.
The apostle Paul had something to say about happiness in his letter to
the Philippians. I wonder what the palace guard who was chained to him
was thinking as Paul wrote these verses?
"I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned
to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in
need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret
of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry,
whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him
who gives me strength" (Philippians 4:11-13).
What do you suppose this "secret" of Paul's was? One thing
you can be sure the secret wasn't: comparing his current situation to
that of other Christians of the day. After all, Paul had been through
among other things shipwrecks, imprisonments and the questioning
of his integrity as a believer.
One surefire way to achieve discontentment is to start comparing yourself
to others. No matter the category, comparing will eventually bring discontentment
even when the subject for comparison might be deemed "noble"
on the surface: Why can't I preach as well as so-and-so?
Part of the Paul's secret was perhaps avoiding the temptation to succumb
to comparison, but what might the rest of the secret be? Just a few verses
earlier in the same chapter, Paul writes:
"Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever
is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable
if anything is excellent or praiseworthy think about such
things" (Philippians 4:8).
When was the last time you meditated on the true, noble, right, pure,
lovely, admirable and praiseworthy aspects of life? Going for extended
periods without this practice can also lead to discontentment. On the
other hand, just a few minutes pondering even one of these topics can
pull you right out of the doldrums of discontent. Take a few more minutes
and you will be hard-pressed not to be thankful for the beauty and blessings
of life! We really don't deserve the blessings God bestows upon us
particularly eternal life. A thankful heart is God's antidote for the
disease of discontentment.
Take half an hour and read through Philippians. Then take the next several
days and read through it again a few verses at a time seeking
to comprehend Paul's absolute assurance that his imprisonment was a good
thing, a cause for contentment.
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